One of my stellar clients [they’re all stellar!] wrote on his Session Prep Form that he had received yet another promotion at work and his co-workers were teasing him about “building an empire.”
He also said co-workers have been asking him how he does it, i.e., how he continues to receive promotions and expand his team and excel at a pace that is unfamiliar for most. Plus, he’s only 31 years old and most of his direct reports are significantly older.
I don’t think they were really expecting an answer and probably wouldn’t have understood his real answer anyway, but I asked him the same question. How do you do it? He acknowledged that as an excellent question and promised to think about it and let me know what he came up with at the following week’s session.
He decided it had to do with deliberate focus and positive expectation. He said he is very deliberate about what he wants and makes sure his desires are backed up by belief.
I totally agree with him about those two and I would add one more – feel good. In fact, I’d put feeling good first.
As we continued our discussion, it occurred to me that these three steps apply to more than this client getting a promotion at work. They actually apply to everything and are the three steps to making the Law of Attraction work for anyone.
1 Feel Good. Maintaining a high vibration is essential to allowing in what you want. When you feel good, your vibration is high and you’re a vibrational match to your desires.
2 Deliberate Focus. Clarity is required here. You must know what you want and you must be clear about what you want. With a clear and deliberate focus, you broadcast a laser-like signal and the Law of Attraction easily matches that signal.
3 Positive Expectation. As he told me about this most recent promotion, he said, “I knew it was coming!” He has trained himself to believe that his desires are not only possible but probable. How many times have we heard people who get in the “hot seat” at an Abraham seminar say, “I knew I would get up here!”
“Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right.”
– Henry Ford
If you think the positive expectation part – the belief part – is difficult, it’s not. We’ve been taught that our beliefs are set in stone, but that’s not true. We now know that a belief is simply a thought you keep thinking. And you can choose to think thoughts that align with your desires.
To me, knowing that we can choose new beliefs is the most empowering information ever! Is it difficult? No! Does it take practice? Yes, it does!
The questions then become:
Are you willing to feel good and take good care of your vibration?
Are you willing to get clarity about what you truly desire and focus deliberately in that direction?
Are you willing to practice thinking thoughts that align with your desires until they feel like a sure thing?
If you’re willing to do these three things, you can easily and joyfully make the Law of Attraction work for you!